I find it worthwhile to periodically reflect on those things that have most influenced my life. Books are no exception. I typically credit three with having the greatest impact on my writing: Story by Robert McKee, The Writers Journey by Christopher Vogler, and On Writing by Stephen King. But long before I read those books, […]
What’s Your Comfort Restaurant?
I was talking to a group of polyamorous friends recently when a woman made an interesting comment. She likened lovemaking with men other than her husband to fine dining—different, exciting, and occasionally exceptional. By contrast, she said, sex with her husband was like returning to her favorite restaurant—comfortable, consistent, and deeply satisfying. “Like an old […]
Are You Poly Tribal or Poly Traditional?
I’ve been a member of the polyamorous community in Chicago for several years and am now starting to make poly friends in New Orleans. Both cities have poly discussion groups. The issues are the same; only the faces are different. “Poly serves my needs much better than monogamy ever did.” “I want to move from […]