Insights and discoveries come in a rush—more so I think when we’re young and eager. After all, it’s been said that scientists and mathematicians produce their best work in their 20s and 30s. I was 28, fresh out of graduate school, driving home from a client who was paying me mind-boggling fees of $50 an […]
Free Yourself from the Curse of Co-Dependence
I remember the moment a decade ago when a big chunk of education fell in my lap. It was at a workshop on strengthening relationships, during which facilitator Reid Mihalko looked around the room at dozens of therapists, life coaches, and sexual healers, asking for a show of hands. “How many of you are in […]
It’s All about Craft
I’ve written two novels and designed two homes, one home being featured in Better Homes and Gardens. It has always seemed to me that the creative process for each is virtually the same. Both start with a blank slate, proceed with envisioning hundreds of possibilities for every space, room, and wall (plot, action, and character), […]
None of Us Gets Touched Enough
I don’t get touched enough! I silently proclaimed, as I felt for the first time the lightning that occurs when a massage therapist’s hands settle firmly on your back. And if I don’t get touched enough, I thought, bumping around with two wives, five kids, four cats, and an occasional gerbil, then nobody does! I […]
Sex Is Wonderful!
“Sex is wonderful! Sex is amazing! Sex is something you’re going to enjoy the rest of your life!” Nowhere did those words appear in an article I read recently about having sex talks with kids. The author emphasized the importance of moving beyond simple mechanics, scary stories, and dire warnings to include discussion of relationships, […]
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